On Sunday, February 27th, 2011, my cousin, Jennifer, died suddenly. She was 35 years old and left behind three young children - Mackenzie (12 yrs), Franchesca (8 yrs), and Josephine (6 yrs). It has been a tough, tough week, and we've prayed for strength and guidance every day. Last evening, we went to her visitation and today was her funeral. I have never seen my aunt cry like she did today. It was heartbreaking. After the funeral, we went to my grandmother's grave to place roses from some of Jennifer's flowers. We said a prayer asking the Lord to help us remember His words from 1 Corinthians 2:9 -
No eye has seen, no ear has heard,
no mind has conceived what God has prepared
for those who love Him.
Jennifer's adult life has always been shrouded in turmoil. And so is her death. But there are lessons we can take away from her short life. Number one: who you marry is the most important decision you'll ever make. Make sure it's someone who loves and cares for you through good times and bad. Make sure it's someone you'll love and support through those same good and bad times. And number two: pray for strength and guidance daily. Let the Lord lead rather than trying to manipulate life to suit yourself.
Tomorrow, her parents, sister and daughters begin the long journey of putting their lives back together. I pray that we all will have closure and find peace about her passing. And I pray that some good will come from this tragic loss.